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Perhaps your mind never seems to switch off.
You find yourself analysing conversations long after they have ended, worrying about situations that haven’t happened yet, or imagining worst-case scenarios even when everything appears to be fine.
Maybe you feel permanently tense, struggle to relax, or wake during the night with thoughts racing through your mind.
For some people anxiety feels like a constant background hum that never completely disappears.
For others it arrives suddenly in the form of overwhelming panic attacks, physical symptoms or intense feelings of dread.
You may have noticed that situations you once handled easily now feel more difficult.
Perhaps your confidence has reduced, you avoid certain situations, or you simply don’t feel like yourself anymore.
Many of the clients who contact me tell me they feel exhausted.
Exhausted from worrying.
Exhausted from overthinking.
Exhausted from constantly trying to keep everything under control.
If this sounds familiar, please know that you are not alone.
Anxiety is one of the most common issues I help clients with in my clinical practice.
Anxiety affects everyone differently.
Some people experience predominantly physical symptoms.
Others experience emotional symptoms.
Many experience both.
Many people are surprised to discover just how much anxiety can affect their physical wellbeing.
It is not uncommon for clients to initially believe there is something physically wrong with them before realising that anxiety may be playing a significant role.
One of the most frustrating aspects of anxiety is that it often feels completely irrational.
You may know logically that everything is fine.
You may recognise that your fears are unlikely to happen.
You may even tell yourself to stop worrying.
Yet despite all of this, the anxiety remains.
This is because anxiety is not simply a thinking problem.
It is a mind and body response.
When anxiety becomes established, it can begin operating automatically.
The body reacts before the logical part of the brain has had chance to evaluate the situation.
This is why many people describe anxiety as feeling as though it has a life of its own.
The more we fear anxiety itself, the stronger the cycle can become.
Many people begin worrying about:
Over time life can become increasingly restricted.
The goal of therapy is not simply to reduce anxiety.
It is to help you regain confidence, freedom and trust in yourself.
Anxiety is a natural human response designed to keep us safe.
Thousands of years ago, our ancestors relied upon anxiety to survive genuine threats.
When danger was detected, the brain rapidly activated the body’s survival system.
This caused a series of physical changes:
These changes prepared the body to fight, flee or protect itself.
In genuinely dangerous situations this response is extremely useful.
The challenge is that the same system can become activated by modern-day stressors.
Examples include:
The brain often responds to these situations using the same survival system that was originally designed to protect us from physical threats.
When this happens occasionally, anxiety is a normal part of life.
However, when the nervous system remains activated for long periods of time, symptoms can become increasingly difficult to manage.
Many people become trapped in a cycle:
A worrying thought creates anxiety.
The anxiety creates physical symptoms.
The physical symptoms create more worry.
The additional worry strengthens the anxiety.
The cycle then continues.
Understanding this process is often an important first step towards breaking it.
There is rarely a single cause.
Anxiety often develops through a combination of factors.
These may include:
Sometimes clients can clearly identify when their anxiety started.
Other times it appears to have developed gradually over months or years.
Regardless of how anxiety developed, many people find that once they understand the patterns involved, positive change begins to feel much more achievable.
Every client who comes to see me is different.
For this reason, every therapy plan is tailored to the individual.
Rather than applying a one-size-fits-all approach, I begin by understanding:
Together we then develop a personalised approach designed around your specific circumstances.
Depending upon your needs, sessions may incorporate clinical hypnotherapy, psychotherapy techniques, relaxation training, breathing exercises and practical anxiety-management strategies.
The aim is not simply to help you feel calmer during our sessions.
The aim is to help you develop the confidence and skills needed to move forward independently.
Generalised Anxiety Disorder, often referred to as GAD, is one of the most common forms of anxiety.
Unlike anxiety that is linked to one specific situation, Generalised Anxiety Disorder often involves worrying about multiple areas of life at the same time.
You may find yourself worrying about:
Many people with GAD describe feeling as though their brain is constantly searching for the next problem.
As soon as one concern is resolved, another quickly takes its place.
Clients often tell me:
“I know I’m worrying too much, but I can’t seem to stop.”
This can be incredibly frustrating because you may recognise that your fears are unlikely, yet still feel unable to switch off.
Over time, this constant mental activity can become exhausting.
Many people experience:
When anxiety has been present for a long time, it can begin to feel like part of your personality.
Many clients tell me:
“I’ve always been a worrier.”
However, worrying is something that people do.
It is not who they are.
One of the aims of therapy is to help you develop a healthier relationship with uncertainty and regain confidence in your ability to cope with life’s challenges.
Health anxiety can be one of the most distressing forms of anxiety because the physical symptoms often feel very real.
Many people find themselves trapped in a cycle that looks something like this:
A physical sensation is noticed.
The sensation creates worry.
The worry increases anxiety.
The anxiety creates additional physical sensations.
Those new sensations then create even more worry.
The cycle continues.
Common concerns may include:
For some people, reassurance helps briefly.
For others, reassurance only provides temporary relief before the anxiety returns.
Health anxiety can become incredibly time-consuming and emotionally draining.
Many people describe feeling trapped by their thoughts.
They may spend hours researching symptoms online or repeatedly checking their body for signs that something is wrong.
Unfortunately, the more attention we focus on bodily sensations, the more noticeable they often become.
Many symptoms associated with anxiety can closely mimic symptoms people find frightening.
These can include:
This can understandably create further worry.
Part of therapy may involve helping you understand the relationship between anxiety and physical symptoms, reducing fear around bodily sensations and developing healthier responses to uncertainty.
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Panic attacks can feel overwhelming.
Many people who experience their first panic attack genuinely believe they are having a serious medical emergency.
A panic attack is the body’s alarm system activating at maximum intensity.
Symptoms may include:
Because these symptoms feel so intense, many people begin worrying about having another panic attack.
Unfortunately, this fear itself often becomes part of the problem.
People frequently start:
Life gradually becomes organised around avoiding panic.
The focus then shifts from living life to avoiding symptoms.
Many people find this deeply frustrating.
The good news is that panic attacks themselves are not dangerous, even though they can feel extremely frightening.
Part of therapy often involves understanding exactly what happens during a panic attack and helping you respond differently to those sensations.
As confidence begins to return, many people find that the fear of panic gradually reduces.
This often creates a positive cycle where reduced fear leads to reduced anxiety, which in turn reduces the likelihood of future panic attacks.
One of the most misunderstood aspects of anxiety is the physical effect it can have on the body.
Many clients initially seek help because of physical symptoms rather than emotional symptoms.
When we remain in a prolonged state of stress or anxiety, the body works harder than normal.
This can leave people feeling physically drained.
Many clients tell me they feel exhausted despite having done very little physically.
Understanding the connection between the mind and body is often an important step in reducing fear and regaining a sense of control.
Anxiety and sleep difficulties often go hand in hand.
Many people find that bedtime is when their mind becomes most active.
The distractions of the day disappear and worrying thoughts suddenly become louder.
You may find yourself:
Poor sleep then makes it harder to manage anxiety the following day.
This can create another frustrating cycle.
Anxiety affects sleep.
Poor sleep increases anxiety.
Increased anxiety then affects sleep again.
Part of therapy may involve helping you develop healthier ways of managing thoughts at bedtime and improving your ability to relax both mentally and physically.
While anxiety can feel overwhelming, it is important to remember that anxiety is a response, not an identity.
You are not your anxiety.
Many people who seek support are surprised by how much progress can be made once they begin understanding the patterns that maintain anxiety and learn new ways of responding to them.
Social anxiety is far more common than many people realise.
While some people describe themselves as naturally shy, social anxiety goes much deeper than simple shyness.
It often involves a persistent fear of being judged, criticised, rejected or embarrassed in front of other people.
Many people with social anxiety spend a significant amount of time replaying social interactions in their minds afterwards.
A conversation that others have completely forgotten about may be analysed repeatedly for hours or even days.
Questions such as:
“Did I sound stupid?”
“Why did I say that?”
“What do they think of me?”
can become exhausting.
Over time, many people begin avoiding situations that make them uncomfortable.
While avoidance often brings short-term relief, it can gradually reduce confidence and reinforce anxiety.
The less we do something, the more difficult it can begin to feel.
This is why social anxiety often becomes more limiting over time if left unaddressed.
Many clients tell me they are tired of anxiety making decisions for them.
They want to feel more comfortable being themselves and less concerned about what others might think.
Developing confidence and reducing self-consciousness is often an important focus of therapy.
Travel anxiety can affect almost any form of travel.
Some people struggle with:
For others, the anxiety is less about the mode of transport and more about feeling trapped.
Common fears may include:
Many people begin changing their lives to avoid situations that trigger anxiety.
They may stop travelling.
Avoid holidays.
Turn down opportunities.
Decline invitations.
Or remain within what feels like a safe area.
Unfortunately, this often allows anxiety to gradually become more restrictive.
Many clients describe feeling frustrated that anxiety is preventing them from living the life they want to live.
Part of therapy may involve understanding exactly what is driving the fear and developing confidence in your ability to cope with situations that currently feel challenging.
Relationships can be one of life’s greatest sources of happiness.
They can also be a significant source of anxiety.
Relationship anxiety may involve:
Many people find themselves trapped in a cycle of seeking reassurance.
While reassurance may help briefly, the relief is often temporary.
The anxiety then returns and further reassurance is needed.
This can become exhausting for both the individual and their partner.
Relationship anxiety often has deeper roots relating to previous experiences, confidence, attachment patterns or past hurts.
Many people discover that when they begin building greater confidence and emotional security within themselves, their relationships also become healthier and more fulfilling.
I cannot praise the therapy received from Debbie enough. She has helped to take me from a very insecure place, to a place to improved self worth and self awareness. Life throws out lots of challenges at times and sometimes it nice to have someone hold your hand and just take you through the maze, which sometimes you cannot work out as you just cannot see the wood for the trees or something is happening that you just cannot make sense of in a relationship. Debbie was that hand and I would, without hesitation reach out to Debbie again if life gets a little mad again. Thank you!
Modern life places enormous demands on many people.
Work-related anxiety is becoming increasingly common.
You may feel:
Many high-achieving individuals are particularly vulnerable.
People who are conscientious, caring and hardworking often place significant pressure on themselves.
Over time this can contribute to:
Many clients tell me that even when they are at home, they are never truly off duty.
Their mind remains focused on work problems, deadlines or responsibilities.
Learning how to create healthier boundaries, manage stress more effectively and switch off mentally can be an important part of recovery.
Anxiety often develops following significant life changes.
Sometimes the connection is obvious.
Other times it may only become clear when looking back.
Common triggers include:
The loss of a loved one can profoundly affect a person’s sense of safety and security.
Major relationship changes can create uncertainty, loss and significant emotional stress.
Experiencing illness personally or supporting a loved one through illness can trigger ongoing anxiety.
Financial uncertainty can create understandable worries about the future.
While parenthood can be incredibly rewarding, it also brings responsibility and concerns that many people have never previously experienced.
Hormonal changes can have a significant impact on mood, anxiety levels, confidence and emotional wellbeing.
Difficult or distressing experiences can sometimes leave people feeling more vulnerable to anxiety long after the event itself has passed.
Not everyone develops anxiety following these experiences.
However, many people find that major life events can act as a catalyst for anxiety that may previously have been manageable or hidden beneath the surface.
One of the saddest things I hear from clients is:
“I’ve stopped doing so many things because of anxiety.”
Perhaps you no longer travel the way you once did.
Perhaps you avoid social situations.
Perhaps your confidence has reduced.
Perhaps you spend so much time worrying that you rarely feel present in your own life.
Anxiety often becomes a prison that gradually gets smaller over time.
Many people adapt to this without even realising it.
They begin arranging their lives around anxiety rather than around what they truly want.
The aim of therapy is not simply to reduce symptoms.
The aim is to help you regain freedom, confidence and a greater sense of control over your own life.
Taking the first step can often feel like the hardest part.
Many clients tell me they have spent months, or sometimes years, thinking about seeking help before finally making contact.
It is completely normal to feel nervous.
In fact, many people are surprised by how quickly they begin to feel more comfortable once they realise they are speaking to someone who understands what they are going through.
I understand that reaching out for support can feel like a big step.
If you have any questions before booking, please feel free to call, text or email me.
I will be happy to answer your questions, explain how I work and help you decide whether hypnotherapy may be appropriate for your needs.
Where appropriate, I also offer a free initial telephone consultation, allowing us to discuss your circumstances in more detail and determine whether therapy feels like the right next step for you.
Your first session focuses on understanding you as an individual.
We explore:
Every client is different.
For this reason, I do not use a one-size-fits-all approach.
Instead, I create a personalised therapy plan based upon your unique circumstances and goals.
Depending upon your needs, sessions may incorporate:
The aim is not simply to help you feel better during our sessions.
The aim is to help you develop practical skills and confidence that continue benefiting you long after therapy has ended.
Choosing a therapist is an important decision.
Qualifications matter.
Experience matters.
But perhaps most importantly, you need to feel comfortable with the person you choose to work with.
My aim is to provide a professional, supportive and non-judgemental environment where you feel safe discussing your concerns.
I have spent over ten years helping clients with a wide range of emotional and psychological difficulties, including anxiety, panic attacks, phobias, confidence issues and stress-related conditions.
Prior to becoming a Clinical Hypnotherapist, I worked for Kent Police and have also received specialist Domestic Violence Advocate training.
These experiences gave me a unique insight into how life events, trauma, stress and difficult circumstances can affect emotional wellbeing.
Many clients contact me feeling:
What they often want is not perfection.
They simply want to feel like themselves again.
They want to:
These are often the goals we work towards together.
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Call or text me on 07766 715265 to discuss your situation or book a free phone consultation.
No.
Hypnosis is a natural state of focused attention and relaxation.
You remain aware of what is happening throughout the session and cannot be made to do anything against your wishes.
Most people describe hypnosis as a pleasant state of relaxation.
Some people feel deeply relaxed.
Others feel calm but fully aware.
Everyone experiences hypnosis slightly differently.
This varies from person to person and depends on the nature of the issue, how long it has been present and what you would like to achieve through therapy.
I offer both four-session and six-session programmes. Four sessions are often suitable for addressing the core aspects of many anxiety-related difficulties, while six-session programmes allow for more in-depth work and the opportunity to explore additional contributing factors where appropriate.
Some clients seek support for a specific issue, while others prefer a more comprehensive programme of therapy tailored to their individual needs.
If you are unsure which option may be most suitable, please feel free to get in touch and I will be happy to discuss your circumstances.
Yes.
I work with clients both face-to-face and online.
Many clients find online sessions extremely convenient and effective.
All sessions are conducted in a professional and confidential environment.
Everyone’s experience is different.
Therapy focuses on helping you develop healthier responses to anxiety, improve confidence and reduce the impact anxiety has on your life.
This is completely normal.
Many clients feel nervous before their first appointment.
My role is to help you feel comfortable and supported throughout the process.
This is often suitable for many anxiety-related concerns and provides an opportunity to learn a variety of techniques and strategies designed to help you manage anxiety more effectively.
For clients experiencing more complex or longer-standing anxiety difficulties, a six-session programme may be recommended.
Individual sessions are generally offered once the core therapeutic work has been completed through a four-session or six-session programme. They can be useful for ongoing support, reinforcing progress, addressing new challenges or helping you maintain the positive changes you have achieved.
I work with clients from:
Based in Whitstable, Kent, I offer both face-to-face and online hypnotherapy sessions.
Many of the clients I work with seek support for anxiety, panic attacks, health anxiety, stress, overthinking, low confidence and related emotional difficulties.
Online appointments are available throughout the UK and internationally, allowing me to support clients from a wide range of locations around the world.
Living with anxiety can be exhausting.
Many people spend years hoping things will improve on their own.
Some adapt their lives around anxiety and gradually stop doing the things they once enjoyed.
It doesn’t have to stay that way.
If anxiety is affecting your confidence, relationships, work or quality of life, please feel free to get in touch.
I will be happy to answer any questions you may have and discuss whether hypnotherapy may be the right next step for you.
There is no pressure and no obligation — simply an opportunity to find out more and decide whether therapy feels right for your circumstances.
07766 715265
Email: enquiries@dohypnosiskent.co.uk
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Results vary from person to person. No guarantees can be given for any form of therapy.
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https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/hypnotherapy/